During the training of role model men, Daniel, a respected elder from the community, shared a transformative experience. Prior to the training, Daniel believed that household roles were strictly divided along gender lines. He admitted that he had never participated in household chores, viewing them as the sole responsibility of women.

However, through the sessions on gender norms and positive masculinity, Daniel began to reflect on how such beliefs had negatively impacted his family. Inspired by the discussions, he decided to take a new approach at home. He began helping his wife with daily tasks and engaging more meaningfully with his children.

Daniel reported that these changes improved communication in his family and reduced tension in the household. His actions have since inspired other men in the village, who now view him as a positive role model. “I used to think that helping my wife in the kitchen would make me less of a man,” he said. “Now I realize that real strength is in partnership and respect.”

His story is a testament to the power of engaging men in gender equality initiatives and highlights the importance of addressing deep-rooted social norms through inclusive and community-based approaches.

Grace, one of the participants aged 36-60, shared: “Before this training, I didn’t know what to say to someone in crisis. Now, I know how to listen with my eyes, ears, and heart.” Her confidence grew notably during simulations and she committed to supporting women in her community members facing distress.

One of the participants shared a personal experience of emotional distress caused by his son, who has persistently refused to attend school despite the parents’ efforts, including paying school fees. The son’s behaviour, including constant financial demands and rejection of educational opportunities, has been a source of frustration and concern for the family. However, by the end of the training, the participant expressed renewed confidence and pledged to apply the Community-Based Psychosocial Support (CBPS) skills acquired to provide counselling and emotional support to his family and other community members facing similar challenges.

Joyce, a 36 – 60-year-old VSLA member, shared how the training changed her perspective: “I now know how to support my neighbor who lost her husband. Before, I feared saying the wrong thing. Now I can listen and help her feel safe.”

One of the Role Model Men shared how participating in the WRD event gave him the confidence to speak publicly about GBV prevention. He reported that after the event, several community members approached him seeking information on available GBV services, indicating the positive ripple effect of the advocacy efforts.